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Mistakes Were Made (But Not by Me)

Carol Tavris

PsychologyHealth & Mind
Publish date
2007
Publisher
Harcourt
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"Mistakes Were Made (But Not by Me)" examines how the psychological mechanisms of cognitive dissonance, confirmation bias, and memory distortion drive people to justify their errors and maintain a positive self-image. The authors analyze how self-justification operates across diverse settings, including the legal system, politics, medicine, and personal relationships, often worsening mistakes rather than resolving them. The book is intended for general readers and professionals interested in understanding the roots of human rationalization, improving decision-making, and learning how to acknowledge personal faults.
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